Thursday, December 25, 2008


Biggie said:

"sex wit the ex makes the sex spec-tacular..." or something to that effect. But, what has always made sex with your ex so alluring? Well maybe not for all people, but I always tend to hear about sticky situations dealing with women, their ex boyfriends, and new lovers.

Is it the familiar touch? A certain warmth... a closeness... he knows what you want and how you want it, and vice-versa?

While I was at work, in a public area, I heard a girl make a comment... she said : "I would rather have sex with one of my ex's when I'm single, rather than find some new guy to do the job and add another motherfucker to my list of mutherfuckers that boned me already"...

I had to crack up right there on the spot. But I guess she kind of had a point....

For me, in the past sex with the ex always created some type of confusion.. and in the end we both would argue and bitch and moan and revisit why we couldnt be together..

Your thoughts...


  1. first time reader. happy nappy holidays. Nice spot u have here, hope u don’t mind the drive by, do chk me out one day and maybe even get some of my books (can see them on my blog)

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  2. sex with the ex "isn't" supposed to happen, so part of that is very alluring because it's just like sex in public--the excitement of the "not supposed to" factor makes it just HOT... that's with CERTAIN exes... i have an ex who still loves me--so i can't have sex with him cuz in the end it would be confusing for him--not me, cuz for me it would be just sex and for him it'd be making love... so sex with the ex should only happen when both parties are "over" the love and not "over" the LUST, lol

  3. interesting post..i think the young lady has a point...but overall i think its not a good idea as you alluded to

    i know im random but im rather new to this blogging thing as well..hello!

  4. Yeah,I've felt like the girl in your post before, why explore new territory when you can be with someone who knows how to do you right? But now, circumstances stand between and most of my exes...HOT picture, by the way....